Tag Archive: discipline

1. The Future is Now

   3rd January 2021 9:29 am Leave a Comment

   Happy New Year to you all.

   There is much talk of ‘good riddance’ to 2020 and looking forward to a better year in 2021.

   

   Unfortunately, the vagaries of the calendar don’t make change happen: people do.

   When I was growing up in the 1970s, I thought the world in 2021 would include a moon colony, local space travel and ubiquitous jetpacks. Reading Dan Dare in The Eagle does this to an impressionable young mind.

   Watching the original series of Star Trek also led me to believe that we would have a united planet of peoples. Mankind would have a common purpose, poverty and hunger would be eradicated and so would petty arguments over territory.

   How wrong we were.

   It has been so easy to shout into echo chambers and blame everyone who doesn’t look or behave like us for the problems of the world.

   People used to rail against being told what to do when the laws requiring the mandatory wearing of seat-belts and then motorbike helmets were introduced. Then it was only the unfortunate people in the pub that had to listen.

   Now everyone is an expert on epidemiology as well as how to manage a Premier League football club and can shout around the world about it.

   2021 more like 2099

   

   Our isolated and separated societies resemble the city blocks of Mega-City One in Judge Dredd set in 2099.

   The seminal storyline, ‘Block Mania’, shows what happens when petty rivalries descend into an all-out conflict with neighbours fighting neighbours before losing to the bigger enemy (in that case Nuclear attack).

   Making 2021 better

   If we want to make 2021 a ‘better year’, then we have to start with ourselves.

   Taking responsibility for our own health requires discipline and sometimes support and guidance.

   Fatigue, economics, depression, societal norms, and availability of affordable options make choosing sensible eating and activity levels difficult (but possible) for many.

   This is why local and national governments need to think strategically about investing our tax money in parks, pathways, and schools so that all citizens can benefit.

   Regulations on food advertising and product placements in supermarkets are the stick that needs to be wielded to help us all.

   If you have two toddlers in tow, are worried about paying the bills and have had a rubbish day at work, then your willpower to ‘make the right choice’ is at its lowest ebb.

   But if the Twix isn’t on the supermarket checkout shelf we won’t be tempted to buy it when we are tired and in need of a ‘pick-me-up.’

   Empathy

   In 1993 I was about to leave Taunton to start work in a health club in London. I asked my teacher at SCAT, the great Roy Parsloe, for some advice.

    He said, ‘Have empathy.’

   Those words have stuck with me and seem more apt than ever. Whilst it may be unrealistic to, ‘Love thy neighbour,’ we can at least tolerate them and show some empathy for their world.

   There have been many acts of kindness on many different levels in our local communities. Many people are doing great work that is unrecognised: small sustainable, local projects make a difference.

   They are like stones thrown into a pond and the ripples can spread further afield. One good deed can lead to another.

   If we want to make our society better in 2021 we need to have empathy for others. or at least try to understand their world.

   Take care of your health, have empathy, help your local community.

   The Future is now: what type of world do you want to live in?

   Further reading:

   • Discipline versus liberty: how your actions affect society.
   • Choosing the right equipment for your local park.
   • How to do a Health self-diagnostic.

2. Discipline versus liberty: how your actions affect society

   5th January 2015 9:00 am 2 Comments

   “I can eat what I want, when I want”

   Those were the famous words issued by a friend of mine through a mouthful of cake, two weeks before he was admitted to hospital with a gall stone attack.

   His actions led to other people having to look after him: his wife, nurses and doctors. His children were affected as they were worried and concerned about his health. He had the liberty to do what he wanted, but lacked self-discipline.

   This impacted our society.

   Discipline may conjure up images of either jack-booted police states forcing people to work in gulags (or scanning tourists’ eyes who are adding money to failing economies!), or being forced to stand in a corner when being disruptive in class.

   This is externally enforced discipline and the first example is dictatorship, not discipline.

   DISCIPLINE > Liberty 

   LIBERTY> Discipline  

   “Discipline is a restraint on liberty, so most of us have a very natural inclination to avoid it.”

   (Field- Marshal Slim (1)).

   Slim was talking in a post war Britain that had been economically devastated by six years of fighting totalitarian regimes.

   He then goes on to say “All history teaches that when, through idleness, weakness or faction, the sense of order fades in a nation its economic life fades into decay.”  Sound familiar? Look at the UK riots in the summer of 2011 and think about our society.

   Discipline can also come from within

   Self-discipline is for your own benefit and also for others:

   • Getting up to go to work when the alarm clock goes off (self, employer, family).
   • Eating a healthy breakfast (self, team, nation).
   • Running that extra set of laps to get fit (self, team).
   • Avoiding a fiery response to a late tackle so you avoid giving away a penalty (team).
   • Washing your hands frequently so you stay healthy (self, family, team, nation).
   • Parking your car in between lines, not across two spaces (society you selfish driver).
   • Paying your taxes (self, family, nation).

   This internal self-discipline is essential as it is that which you will draw upon in times of stress and need.

   Unfortunately, discipline is often seen as a dirty word. The discipline of finishing a task you have set out to do. One local high school allows its female pupils to quit p.e. if they want to. Ill discipline is rife there (I had objects thrown at my car, swearing amongst pupils was left unchecked, pupils walk out of class and school at will!)

   How can we build a Nation on this? The teachers are letting the pupils down.

   Politicians and coaches need discipline

   In order for our team and nation to work, those people we elect need to have discipline too. We are trusting them to act and behave responsibly.

   If they espouse “just do as I say” and then act irresponsibly we lose trust, respect and then our desire to act in a disciplined fashion.  Examples might be:

   • Spending our tax money wisely.
   • Stop fiddling expenses.
   • Setting an example with our own healthy and ethical behaviours.
   • Treating all players with respect and courtesy.
   • Avoiding nepotism.
   • Have a clear vision of what is trying to be achieved, and inform, explain and engage others in that vision.

   “Serve to Lead”

   This is the motto of the Royal Military Academy, Sandhurst . When I was there, it was drummed into us that it was our responsibility as future leaders to look after the welfare of our troops. If we failed in that, then we would be negligent in our duty.

   This includes explaining and informing others of what we are trying to achieve, opportunities that exist , constraints that might stop us, and how we are trying to overcome them. It is then down to the troops, citizens, or team mates to fully commit and exhort every gram of effort into this common goal.

   This comes down to discipline versus liberty. You can eat that extra cake, you can stop that run short of the line, you can park in that disabled bay, you can turn up late to your practice and you can give that defence contract to your old college roommate… but be aware it has an impact beyond yourself.

   We are privileged to live in a free society.

   The alternative is to be told what job we have to do, how many children we are allowed to have (and what sex), and what friends we are allowed to associate with.

   “You can have discipline without liberty, but you can’t have liberty without discipline.” (Slim).

   References

   1 Courage and other broadcasts. Field- Marshal Sir William Slim. Cassel & Company LTD: London (1957).